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What are your secrets to fingering? Any tips you’d like to share? 😏
Hey anon,
Absolutely! Fingering is ridiculously easy but the problem is that guys don’t seem to recognize there’s an anatomical part that needs to be stimulated for it to feel good for the bottom.
Here’s all you have to do.
1. Trim your finger nails! This is vital or you can cut someone internally, it’s not deadly or anything but it’s uncomfortable. Make sure you aren’t leaving sharp edges.
2. Start by putting your bottom on his back.
3. Lube his hole up with your finger or lube shooter.
4. Stick your middle finger in with your palm facing the ceiling.
5. Then stroke your middle finger towards the bottom’s cock. You’ll feel a somewhat firm surface.
6. This should cause a pretty instant reaction. Prostates can be located in slightly different places in different people. Explore a bit if you don’t get the right reaction.
7. While fingering, you should vary the stimulation from your finger. Draw circles, make a figure 8, or do a come hither (google it if you aren’t sure what that is, it’s SFW).
8. Your finger will very likely get tired, doing this right requires a lot of wrist stamina. You will likely need to switch arms.
9. Be prepared for the bottom to insist on fingering in the bedroom as part of your play if you’ve done this right.
Now that you’ve got your ten step process, I’m going to test you. Here’s 5 quiz images, answer will be at the bottom of each pic. Honor system only boys, say to yourself whether each image is right or wrong.
Wrong. That’s to the left of the camera, prostate is under the dick.
Wrong. A tailbone isn’t going to send him crawling up the headboard.
Right! This is what a bottom fingering himself looks like if he’s doing it right.
Wrong. You have no clue what you’re doing if you think that’s correct.
Correct. Dr Feel Good MD knows what he’s doing.
Have a question or need a friendly ear?
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