The goal of these links is to support others in becoming wiser, more skilled, and more accepting of themselves and others. Ideally, I’d love to save folks several decades of guessing, and learning the hard way.
The Kink Mentoring Archives, Explained
GREATEST HITS! The Most Useful Mentoring Material. Carefully chosen from the massive library below. A good start for beginners.
Opinions - Sharing some ideas that might work well for others
How-To: Hard Skills - Covering technical skills that will last you a lifetime
Valuable Links & Lists - Providing access to many more resources
Reviews - How to save money, time and wasted energy when shopping for kinky gear
New Traditions & Mentoring - Going deep into mentoring as a goal and a noble activity
Creating Community Via Leadership - Encouraging and educating folks who want to be effective community leaders
Memoirs of a Gay Leather Elder: Four Decades in the Tribe - My book’s first draft. These are stories that nobody else can tell, from a lost part of pre-AIDS gay leathermen's history.