House Slaves on Duty

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Can I ask you about these Dom-sub social dinners you’ve been to?

Based upon our earlier conversation, it sounds to me like you are hungering for achieving a fantasy of High-Protocol Formal Dinners, with you desiring to be of service to a crowd of Sirs.

The official term for this role is “House Slave.”  I have attended many events with a single House Slave on duty (or several).  Here is the standard structure, but obviously, this can vary:

The event usually holds place at the home of a Sir who owns a slave or three, or six.  The evening MAY include play afterward, or just be a social event.

The following image is NOT from a formal event, but it shows a vigilant house-slave making sure that everything that NEEDS to be handled for a successful event is being done:

The House Slave’s Role

The House Slave represents the relationship with his Sir and any other members of their Leather Family.  As a result, constant attentiveness, impeccability and formal respect are imperative.  A sloppy, uncaring slave theoretically brings shame upon the household, but I have never seen that happen.

Perfection is not required - just a strong desire to please.  That’s usually a hard-wired craving for a House Slave.

A true House Slave is delighted and energized by being in service.  He spends the evening being his true, fully-expressed self, but now for a crowd of dominant males who will need a lot of diligent support.  This is never tiring or stressful for the slave who has “SERVICE” hard-coded into every cell of his body.

Preparation

In the days before the Formal Gear Dinner, the home is made spotless, with extra attention given to the Sir’s gear.  Leather and boots must be polished to a high sheen, uniforms cleaned and pressed, cigars must be stockpiled, the menu needs to be agreed-upon and shopping performed.  Think “Downton Abbey” levels of preparation… Ironing napkins, and with the table arranged perfectly.  Flowers and candles.  Multiple courses.

The evening is broken into several parts:

Arrival

The House Slave is always naked and collared.  A cock-cage is appropriate as well.  A butt-towel is utilized whenever the naked submissive is seated, whether upon the floor by the Sir’s feet, or at the dinner table.

As the invitees arrive in full formal gear, the House Slave takes the jackets and extraneous gear, and puts them away carefully.

Social Time

Whenever Sirs congregate, they need to do some Top Talk, comparing new toys and reconnecting as peers.  They will need beverages and a few light snacks, questions about the evening’s plans answered, announcements of what is next.  That is the House Slave’s job.  Maybe everybody meets outside on the patio for cigars and snacks, waiting for dinner to be announced.

Dinner Time

Supper is announced, and everyone gathers at the table.  The House Slave serves dinner, freshens beverages and does whatever is called-for, from moment to moment.  The slave’s Sir needs to give the slave full permission to serve EVERYONE, even if the Sir doesn’t receive his usual, full attention.  The goal is to make the hosting Leather Family look excellent and well-run.

After Dinner

I have seen all sorts of end-results after a Formal Dinner.  Could be, everybody indulges in kinky play, sexual intercourse (up to and including orgasm), or the goal is to just sit around and socialize.  The end-result is always to bring folks together who share similar interests, and bonding as brothers.

Not Every Sir Who Shows Up Is Accustomed To Being Served.  Yet.  

By being a diligent and high-value House Slave, you are teaching new Sirs what a treasure a service-oriented submissive can be.  In my opinion, a rock-solid, fully-expressed House Slave is worth several hundred typical horny bottom-boys.

Any high-quality Sir who has one in his life has won the lottery, and I would hope that he is fully aware of this.