Living A Life Of Service Means Living A Life Of Observation

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serviceorientedsub: When u strive to serve well, u must watch ur MAN. Learn what each expression means. Study HIM until u can read HIS reactions and needs in a twelfth of a second. It’s about anticipating needs and memorizing preferences.

How does HE take HIS coffee? Does HE relax faster if u start the massage at HIS feet or HIS shoulders. How does HE feel ur worship when HE doesn’t even see it sometimes? HE may get so used to coming home to HIS clothes put away that HE forgets there is even a process. This isn’t HIM taking u for granted. This is u being so skilled that having u make HIS life better is something HE comes to expect. It’s not a thankless job when u get to live be with a MAN who only thinks about ease of pleasure when HE is with u.

Take pride in HIM not even noticing ur work sometimes. Know what relaxes HIM and puts HIM into HIS happiest of places. HE may not even notice that u chose the music and the porn with HIM in mind, but HE will be more at-ease in the room. ur payback is HIS pleasure. ur payback is access to the MAN u admire, in HIS most natural state. That access is worth a lot.

u are a beta and u take quiet pride in things most people will never see or understand. Know that this makes u powerful. Learning about MEN is learning about all human behavior. Let HIM teach u about human nature and the joy of living in a hierarchy.

As it should be.