Sunday, December 30, 2018

Am I Unattractive?

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Anonymous:  Question sir. If a sub or son were quite heavy, would that turn away potential doms/daddies. I know each one is different, but I mean overall, what tends to be the trend?

Unknown author:

To be brutally honest, the trend is based on porn. That means that this:




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is more appealing in general than this:




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or this:




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and I vehemently disagree.

Most common is the ‘twink’ and not the otter or cub son, and that’s speaking extremely generally. I, and many other Daddies out there, have a more discerning eye for quality and tend to see past the trappings to what’s really on offer. A chubby, scruffy cubby will trump a smooth twink every time if he can smile, have fun and be a joy to have around.

What makes a boy attractive to me is that he is comfortable in his own body. He doesn’t have to ‘love’ how he looks or feel super sexy; he just has to be ok with who he is and know that the right person will want that and not that common image of beauty.

“Feeling sexy” is something Daddy can easily provide for the right boy and he’ll eventually come to understand that is how he should feel regardless of how his ‘outside’ appears. If he’s happy with himself, comfortable as he is then Daddy will take care of the rest.



Nachtsoul:
Sometimes a guy who qualifies as "heavy" will catch my eye. I had a boy that was 100lbs overweight, but still beautiful in my eyes. I first knew him when he was smoking hot body-wise, but no matter how he changed physically, that was always the boy my heart saw.

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