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1. There is nothing wrong in communicating/expressing frustration or anger but always communicate/express the source of your frustration or anger.
2. Have you shared with Master the emotional tie you have with [example] boots in general, jungle boots in particular? Tell him it’s a fetish, it’s part of you and you’d like it to be part of your relationship.
3. Always remember that he has always dreamed of owning a slave, longs for the loyal devotion a slave provides but has never owned a slave before. It’s a learning experience for both of you and you must treat it as such. Make your turn-ons and fetishes known to him during this time.
4. You will always be safe in saying, “Permission to speak freely, Sir!” If he is worth his salt, he will grant you permission and you then have an obligation to say what’s on your mind, express yourself.
5. Remember that never having owned a slave, most likely the majority of Master’s “education” is likely drawn from porn pictures and porn stories. If you expect this to last long-term you owe it to both yourself and your Master what you respond to and what you don’t. Keep your expectations realistic.
6. Use these last few daily emails to give your Master a crystal clear picture of who you really are, deep down and totally exposed, what you like and dislike both inside and outside of a Master/slave relationship; in short, let him see what he’s buying into and I’ll guarantee it will be far more enticing that anything he’s imagined up to this point.
7. Remember that any Dom worth his salt always appreciates it when a sub reveals his inner feelings in a humble and earnest way; it gives him insight into his boy.
8. Always remember that submission is a precious gift and dominance is not a right. There is no greater gift than the gift of submission and obedience and dominance that is earned, not taken.
Just some thoughts…
Master Chuck
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