Monday, September 10, 2018

Valuable Links & Lists

Providing access to many more resources

These are articles that I consider to be of value, based upon the responses that I have received.

You can find the Master Index for every category here.

This page is only one of many categories.  There are HUNDREDS of articles, and each list continues to grow longer and longer.

I hope that you find these articles to be of value in your life.



Signs of a Good Dom - mxponysyn: We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom…

Doms Have Rights Too - The dom is in control.  And yet – doms are just humans too. Having bad days, and needs, and problems. And sometimes this gets lost in the “role” / stereotype of the dominant.

Seven Responsibilities of the Dominant - Being a Dominant may start out as just fun, kinky play - but when becoming involved and entangled in most D/s dynamics, you take on certain responsibilities along with that role.

Principles And Ground Rules For The Slave - It’s HIS decision. You may query an order if you need to find out more information or you need to make sure your Owner knows all the facts.

Nine Levels of submission - Within S/M, different people use the words “submissive”, “bottom” and “slave” to mean different things. When a person says, “I want to be your slave,” sometimes they only mean that they want to be tied up and spanked.

Quick Resource Guide For The LGBT Community - Anxiety, Bisexuality, Coming Out, Family and Friends, Healthy Relationships, Mental Health, Out and Proud and much more…

12 Traits of a True Dom - a true gentleman.

The GayBoyBible Table of Contents - Words of experience and wisdom from a very deep Dom.

10 Commandments of Compulsory Chastity - 1. As your owner, owns every part of you he is entitled to determine which bits are used and when…

Things to Remember About Me, My Boy and My Relationship - I have said it before and I’ll say it again: we are partners in a relationship first and the D/s dynamic comes second to that. I am madly in love with this guy…

Seven Deadly Sins of a Dominant - 2. Apathy - if a dominant does not care much about his or her sub or their relationship, they are not going to invest the large amounts of time and energy that power-exchange dynamics need to thrive…

Financial Domination FAQ - Fin-Dom is a really, really touchy subject and quite taboo. This isn’t without good cause; there are a lot of ethical issues with the practise. So I’m going to do a FAQ, some myths and truths and then talk about some experiences.

Dominant vs. Domineering - pleasurewhore: I was scrolling back through my archives and I came across an ask from another blog where someone was inquiring about signs that a man was not a Dominant, but simply domineering…

The Periodic Table of Kinks - breederofbetas: I wanted to link the source blog (I believe) that this came from. I was VERY proud that my knowledge meant simply that I did not know 3 - 4 out of the 100+ kinks.

10 Golden Rules for BDSM Negotiations - A very good list.  I recommend every submissive AND Dominant read it. CONSENSUAL, AWARE, SAFE and HONEST. Rules to live by, daily. Read it.

How to be a Good fag/slave - francodt: Many have asked how i do it, so want to pass along what has worked out for me as well as what hasn’t.

Leather Elder: Peter Fiske - He is quite a fine man, and a character who has been very generous with his wisdom and time, over many decades.

Audio from Men's Discussions - VERY popular posting.  Listened to by hundreds of thousands, worldwide.  I also talk about the value of these recordings here.

What Books Do You Recommend? - These are what I assign to my mentees and proteges., followed by…

BDSM Links And Resources - I didn't create this list, but folks really like it

True Master, True slave - A lovely breath of fresh air

50 Ideas for Humiliating a Slave - Here are 50 scenarios of varying quality that would be humiliating for me to carry out if I were ordered to, Sir.

🎀 Submissive rules 🎀 for Bratty Subs - 1. I will not hum the theme from jeopardy while Sir decides which implement to spank me with.  2. I will not annotate Sir’s “to do” list.  3. I will not applaud when Sir uses big words... 

A Few Things That Will Make You A More Effective Dominant - 1. Every rule you make, every command you give, should be for the betterment of your submissive, the betterment of your relationship, or the strengthening of the dynamic…

Signs Of A Fantastic Dom - We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom…

30 Kinky Terms Every Gay Man Should Know - I am astonished to find something this good on the Advocate Web site.

35 DOs and DON'Ts of a Gay Leather Bar - I was doing research for another article, and happened upon a VERY good article that covers the topic very well.

Ten Things A Dom Expects A sub To Know Without Being Told - This is the path to success.  I promise.

A Shout-Out For Officer Wes - He has a massive, excellent educational website.

Getting Into New Kink Practices - Bondage and Impact Play

Styles of Domination - Find yourself on the list!


Tumblr Doms Terrify Me - A retort to the usual Tumblr Fantasy crapola.

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