Aftercare

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Subdrop And Aftercare - I have just had to help a close friend deal with her first experience of subdrop and although she knew what it was, she did not realise that is what she was going through and did not know how to deal with it.

Aftercare, In Detail - Just like safewords, aftercare is a requirement for healthy relationships. In order to ensure a partner’s safety and well-being, aftercare should be performed after every scene.

Good Info For The “Fight Or Flight” Reaction After A Kinky Scene - A panicked sub needs the calm, firm in control Dominant to wrap them up in a “cocoon of Dominance” during this perfectly normal adrenaline burn off period.

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The following links are from the BDSM Links And Resources, created by desires-of-a-dominant-man on Tumblr. I rescued it from Tumblr's burning wreckage, so that this valuable information doesn't get lost.
He says:

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves:

• Aftercare 101
• Aftercare For Dominants
• Coping With Emotional Subdrop
• Dom Drop
• How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
• Online Aftercare
• sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
• Subspace and Aftercare