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Re orgasm control: My husband is difficult to make cum. After I finish, he will either skip it or I'll help him jerk off. He always thanks me for sex, and I love him for it. Having me in him is often all he needs.
I have never met another guy like him. Your thoughts?
Papa Tony:
Thanks for checking in. Be clear that what you are talking about is not "Orgasm Control." It's a precursor to possible good times, that will be caused by intentional training.
I talk about using Operant Conditioning a LOT, but only while using positive reinforcement. No negativity. It's futile.
One of my submissives had a DEVIL of a time cumming. He was a typical male example of what Dan Savage calls the Death Grip. Short version: Easy access to porn and masturbation deadens our responses. It would take me hours to get him to cum, when we first started to play. After patient and consistent training, he has explosive and shatteringly awesome orgasms, every time, as easily as a teenager.
It is possible in most men to re-train them using care and the techniques that I describe here:
Full-Body Orgasms, In Less Than Sixty Seconds. Using Nothing But Your Voice
It's worth a try!
Submissive-Seeking:
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