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hadriantemple:
The idea of ‘slave poses’ is mostly drawn from John Norman’s Gor novels, which inspired Gorean BDSM. It’s mostly a heterosexual male superiority practice. If this sort of complex protocol is your thing, great!
But don’t assume that these poses are universal or that all slaves have to learn them. I don’t know any master who has bothered to train his boy like this, although the Wait pose is pretty common (due to the fact that many gay kinksters in the 50s and 60s had served in the military) and Collar Me turns up in the porn a lot. Complex protocol can be fun, but it’s also tiring and often more trouble then it’s worth (imao).
Assuming you’re practicing safety and consent, do the bdsm that makes sense for you and your partner. Don’t let anyone tell you that you have to do it a specific way. Use the rules that feel sexy and practical for you and ignore the ones that don’t. There’s no One Right Way to do bdsm, just the Right Way for You.
Papa Tony:
I agree, that's a lot of highly-specific training. I don't have the patience.
However….
I DO have certain protocols that I use with my slaves, and that work really well for us. We only use them in public (and entirely non-verbally), and always while I am doing Top Talk with other Doms in a group:
- I will poke the slave in the chest with three fingers, and then step away. This is a non-verbal communication meaning: "Stay here - I will come back and collect the slave."
- I will be entirely involved in chatting with another Sir, and I KNOW that the slave is bored and feeling ignored. So, I will make significant eye-contact with the slave, and slap my chest. This means "Feel free to climb me like a mountain while I am chatting. I want some body-contact and some worshipful attention. I will ignore you outwardly, but I will be amused as the other Doms watch me casually taking all of the back-of-the-neck smooches and groping as my natural right."
- Or, I will slap the side of my thigh. Meaning: "Kneel by My side and wrap your arms around My leg. I feel like showing off My property's immediate obedience and submission. This is meant to make the other Sirs jealous!"
- If I have been cleaning-out my kidneys all evening by drinking bubbly water with lime juice (my preference), I know that my piss is running clear. Otherwise, it can upset the slave's digestion. So, in full view of the other Sirs, I will cross the pointy-finger and the Fuck You finger on one hand, and then shake them slowly from side to side. This is American Sign Language for "R R" (meaning "Rest Room"). This means "Head into the Men's Room (or, alternatively, drop to your knees here in the center of the bar) and drink My piss." If it's a bar where such behavior is frowned upon, I will invite the other Sirs to gather in a tight circle around us, to block the general public's view.
- I will hold my hand in a shape that pretends to be holding a glass, catch the slave's eye, and pretend to toss back a drink. That means "It's time for the beverage of the evening that we discussed earlier, slave." Some evenings, I might want something alcoholic, but if I am demonstrating ANY kind of kinky play in the bar, I always remain utterly sober. Safe, sane and consensual, baby!
These NOT protocols, but they are worth sharing:
- I like having the slave douche and grease his ass before we head out to the bar. He's wearing his cock-cage and his assless chaps with some skimpy shorts. I'll gather some Sirs in a semi-circle on one back corner of the bar, and while I'm chatting with them, I will casually molest the slave… I'll stick a greased thumb (with a smooth, short nail) up his ass and play with his prostate. Pretty soon, he's dancing on tippy-toe, and in a frenzy of sexual need, while the other Sirs block the view of outsiders.
- If the slave is NOT caged, then I will have him wear flimsy Spandex shorts, and gently pinch the meaty part of the skin under the head of his cock. I'll talk dirty to the slave (he's been on chastity for three weeks, and his IQ has dropped eighty points by this time). Pretty soon, he cums with no further stimulation, in full view of the Sirs around us, and then he has to wear the mess on the front of the shorts that has leaked through.
And I smile...
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