Kinky Survey Questions

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DominantAcademy: What I’d like is some answers to a quick survey - feel free to answer as many as you’d like, in as much detail as you’d like to give:

Dominants:

What do you wish you had known when you started out as a Dominant that you have learned along the way?
What was your most painful lesson?
What was your most valuable lesson?
If you could visit yourself as a starting Dominant, what one piece of advice would you give yourself?
What was your greatest failure or most significant shortcoming as a Dominant?
How do you expect to be addressed by Dominants and submissives outside of your dynamic?

Submissives (answer in general or about your Dominant in specific):

What was the hardest thing for you to adjust to in a Dominant?
What behaviors in a Dominant make it difficult for you to submit?
What do you look for in a Dominant?
What are dealbreakers in a Dominant for you?
What is the sole quality of a Dominant that is most important to you?
How do you address Dominants outside of your dynamic?

Both Dominants and submissives:
How do you define a healthy D/s dynamic?
What are the signs of an abusive D/s dynamic?
How has D/s impacted your relationship?

I would appreciate it if you would reblog these questions and share them with your BDSM circles so that I could collect a wide range of answers. Thanks!

Note from Papa Tony:

You are welcome to send feedback to me at askpapatony AT gmail DOT com - The original poster is long gone.