How To Turn A Leather Sir Into A Daddy

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I just wanted to know unto which extent you think a Leather Sir could be inclined to the concept of daddy?

dirtydaddythings:

To me, the latter seems somethings he would already have taken care of since he already has the majority of that ‘role’ in play. The difference would ultimately only be in the language used and even then only slightly in some cases. Wanting your Sir to be on this seemingly more intimate level is something you two should talk about, and work toward together. You might be surprised to discover that he has no problem incorporating the parts of this fetish into what you already have, but you have to take that step and talk to him about it.

Leather Sir and Daddy both get a lot of preconceptions pinned on them, even from the boys who are with them. Many assume that because I present my caring side that being a Dominant/Sir isn’t really my bailiwick, but that’s an assumption and a mistaken one at that. He may be more than willing to change how things work between you, or at least to experiment with them and see how it works for you. There is, after all, the “Leather Daddy” is there not?

Being a Daddy as I describe it is equal measures of many different images of Dom: the caregiver, the handler, the Dominant Daddy nurturing, guiding and helping a boy become his best self. Almost all of these things are found in any Dom/sub relationship to one degree or another, they simply may not be labeled as such.

What I’m hearing from you is a desire to explore more than just the leather realm, and that’s healthy. You may find yourself being happiest just as you are, but knowing makes it a stronger decision for you. The concept of Daddy, however, may be something you need to think more about, because I suspect you’ve already found him, he just hasn’t put that ‘hat’ on himself. Many don’t like being called “Daddy” but fully enjoy the role. Approach him honestly, share your feelings, and be as clear in your communication about it as you can. The rest will attend to itself.